By ChemicalGirl on Tuesday, August 24, 2010 - 03:45 pm:

I'm 13 and i've had eczema all my life... it really effects my life if i make plans i would easily cancel them because my eczema flared up badly.. its mostly on my wrists, hands, arms, and neck. i have to put cream on every night and day which takes up most of my time, i feel depressed most of the time mostly when i see my mates wearing whatever they want they dont know how lucky they are.I feel embarrased aswell when im sleeping over at a mates when i have to put cream on whilst they can just not worry about things like that, i feel abit alone sometimes.. im very self concious, But reading all of this makes me feel so much better knowing that im not alone and theres people in the same situation as i am.My mum aswell encourages me to get out more and stop wrapping up in layers of clothes.

By AK92 on Sunday, May 02, 2010 - 07:03 pm:

Hello. The name's Adrianna. I've had eczema all my life but only in the past 3 years had it gotten so bad that I'm no longer able to enjoy warm weather. I can't wear skirts,shorts,leggings or even a bathing suit. I have a boyfriend who's under the impression that my skin isn't that bad but he's only seen above my knees, never below. He loves hot weather and all the activities that go along with it(i.e. swimming)The last few weeks have been hell for us. Alot of his friends have been inviting him to things and of course he wants me to go with but I just can't. I wish he could understand but how can he? Lately we only hang out at his house and even then my skin ends up the topic of our conversation. I know all he wants is to see me, all of me but I just can't do that, not yet at least. Are there treatments out there that don't require lasers? I'm ineligible for them due to the sensitivity of my skin. Can anyone help me?

By RR on Sunday, March 14, 2010 - 07:12 pm:

Good Luck beauty! Hope it went well, got my fingers crossed for you! xx

By hidden.beauty on Saturday, March 13, 2010 - 03:19 pm:

haha funny thing there RR, i actually have a brother named tyler :P

thanks for all the advice girl.. im gonna try it.. and im still scared to tell my boyfriend tho but i know i have to so hopefully when i see him after work today i can muster up the curage to tell him my secret..

By RR on Thursday, March 11, 2010 - 05:03 pm:

Hi Beauty!! Iv been to Sarnia lol do you know Tyler?! Small world. (I live in UK now).

I think you should be brave and just tell him, boys prefer it if your straight up with them, they dont like people being quietly depressed and having to guess whats wrong.

My eczema has gotten loads better recently. Get the eczema solution book by susan armstrong brown, it started me on the track to healing. It's not expensive but it will help you so much more than wasting money on creams that dont work. Change your diet if you havnt already. get lots of fruit and vegetables, avoid fizzy drinks etc. Try to stay positive because eczema feeds off stress.

Try taking supplements. Sea buckthorn oil is good, and ginkgo and codliver oil and evening primrose oil. And quercertin (it is supposed to help your body stop producing so many histamines when it comes into contact with allergins.

Try nmoisturising with olive oil, coconut oil, any thick rich moisturizers.

But dont use the same thing every day. Change products constantly, it seems to stop the eczema taking hold and spreading.

Hope this helps! Sarnia has one of the coziest mcdonalds in the world lol with the fire place and the huge seats by it! xx

By hidden.beauty on Thursday, March 11, 2010 - 03:16 pm:

Hey everyone.. Im a 19 year old girl from sarnia ontario and i have had pretty bad eczema since i was a little girl.. still no cure and still not toally confident about my body due to this ugly disease.. i didnt realize how many other people out there are suffering from this. i just wish i had friends or even A friend to talk to about this.. if i would of known about this site 10 years ago my life would of been a lot easier to deal with.. eczema has made me really depressed and im running out of ways to deal with it.

a few months ago i got a boyfriend who im still with but he doesnt know about my skin condition.. he saw it on my arms but i only claimed it as dry skin from the winter... i just need some confidence boosting becasue i REALLY want him to know.. i want him to be able to understand why sometimes im really depressed and wont tell him why. or why i wont let him touch parts of my body because its covered in eczema.. it really hurts knowing that im hiding this from sombody i love.

it seems like ive tried everything to contain my eczema but it only works the first time then my body becomes immune to it so i try something else and its just a never ending cycle..

please help
xo

By weekayx on Tuesday, December 08, 2009 - 11:28 am:

Hii Sweet R,
iam 18 and i have had eczema all my life to and i hate it as much as you and people say things about me and i love going out and dressing up nice in fancy dresses and skirts and you know what! i do it, i dnt care what anyone thinks about my skin condition and neather should you, i used to be so shy but i learned to push my self and relise words are only words dnt let anyone let you think less about your self, i have scaring on my legs and arms and face and my eczema is still as worse as ever all i remember only the ones who care and love you matter no one els show everyone you dnt care and i promise youl feel better about your self if you ignore the bad things x x

Kerri x

By Sweet_R on Monday, December 07, 2009 - 07:04 pm:

heyaa, im 16 and iv been suffereing from eczema since i was a baby. i was bullied in school and was scared to attend. thats partly the reason why i hate going now. it makes me depressed and stressed. sometimes i dont want to live! i cant wear teh clothes i want, eat what i want, go out and have fun!!! all we eczema sufferes can do is have faith and hope that one day it goes. your all in my prayers.

By Heather on Friday, November 20, 2009 - 01:34 am:

Hey
I'm a 17 year old girl. A typical teenager who worries about what I look like all the time.

I am depressed with my eczema now. I have had it since I was a baby.
It is something that is going to be with me for life, as doctors have said to me for years, but just never wanted to beleive it.
I thought if i forgot about it, it would just go away.

Alot of people ask me about it, I can't wear a skirt without wearing tights, and I cant wear a short sleeved top without wearing a jacket. Which is so difficult in the summer.

I am really fed up with being concious, but I do get alot of looks of people, and thats not me being paranoid.

I want it just to disappear.

No one understands. I have been going to see a specialist for some time now, and they don't listen to me. They have tried everything they can. I've been on everything possible apart from light treatment and Alitretinoin. I have even been wrapped up in bandages for weeks because it got so bad they had to bandage my legs and arms. They wont give me light therapy or Alitertinoin because my immune system is messed up because of all the creams and steroids they have given me and also anti biotics to stop the infections when it gets infected.

I have actually given up using the creams as they don't work anymore. All they do is make me itch more and it is really getting to me now.

I can't go swimming with my friends as I am scared it will flare up.

I've tried changing my diet a million times to what the specialist have suggested and still no different. I've done everything they have told me to, but nothing has seemed to eeze it.

I want it just to go away.

By anonymous on Friday, October 23, 2009 - 05:01 am:

I am a 11 year old guy, and I have eczema on my stomach, arms, shoulders, neck, eyes - mild, legs, and testicles.
YES TESTICLES. I can not live with it anymore. Seriously.

It is so bad, I scratch until my balls bleed, and I want to stop BUT IT FEELS SO FUCKING GOOD.

I need to get rid of this btw, seriously!!

By the lone shoe on Sunday, August 09, 2009 - 08:45 am:

hey does anyone know if excema is hereditary?
just realised this horrifying possibility that will deny me of my children...

By theloneshoe on Sunday, August 09, 2009 - 08:29 am:

hi people. i'm a 18 yr old from singapore. guess most of us here have social problems. me too. =/
i have ezcema as far as i can remember and it definitely doesn't help when it comes to possible development with people of the opposite sex. i have few and understanding friends. in which i really consider them friends because they do not exclude me, not for my skin. i belong to the severe category, if you count being hospitalized twice serious. i tried all sorts of things, my condition is like a roller coaster. it never gets completely healed, and i have to deal with all these with school work where credentials are very important in my country. life just kinda suck. and all that stress coming from trying to get good academic and non-academic records adds on to the stress for me.

i don't know about you guys out there, i suppose the climate is different. but it gives warmth where you know someone can understand you. very happy to find this site today..

By cmtn on Monday, July 27, 2009 - 06:28 pm:

Hey everyone. Eczema is hell. I've had it since i was widdle baby. it cleared up and it had gotten worse in the past 2 years. much much worse. no one has seen my arms or legs in years. i have it on my back, legs, arms.

here is my story.

2 years ago i started dabbling in recreational drug taking. i started smoking marijuana or a regular basis. eventually i got terribly addicted to the drug and the lifestyle. after a while i noticed my skin itching immediately after i started smoking it. it eventually got to the point where i would start itching as soon as i smelt any trace of marijuana anywhere. i was highly allergic. after 6 months or so, i quit marijuana completely and lost most of my friends as a consequence. by this stage i had huge sores on my arms and legs. my skin still hadn't healed. i went to so many doctors, back and forth back and forth getting mroe and mroe disheartened with every single useless bullshit cream they prescribed me.

and then i went to a naturopath.

she was amazing. a lifesaver.

she did a simple test that lasted 2 hours, and concluded that i was allergic to wheat, grains, dairy, and gave me some drops to take daily. 100% plant extract, and made especially to my requirements. i was skeptical at first, but within a week of sticking to the diet and taking the drops i had no itching. my skin was finally healing. there was no weeping. i kept moisturising. and now my skin is nearly clear and baby soft. i just have to be ver careful about what i eat, and monitor my reactions to food. before i saw the naturopath, i couldn't get out of bed i was so exhausted and depressed about my skin. i had no energy, i was diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome. almost immediately after my energy picked up and i was able to be myself again.

another thing which has vastly helped my eczema is saunas. i have a sauna twice a week. all that sweating helps so much with the elimination of toxins from fat cells that would otherwise be eliminated by the body in the form of a rash (eczema). it also helps so much with stress (another eczema trigger) and feeeelsssss sooooo good too!!

i keep up a regime of mediation and easy exercise to keep me relaxed and centered

after 17 years of steroid creams, injections, lotions that don't help i've come to learn that the best way to heal your skin is from the inside. see a naturopath. do some yoga or mediation. control your eczema, don't let it control you. you can do it.

remember, heal yourself from the inside out!

bet of luck to everyone!!!

By .Clo. on Wednesday, May 06, 2009 - 03:22 pm:

Eczema doesn't define who you are. Its hard at times to remember that, because it can get so sore that you wish you could just stay under a duvet and hide. But what ive realised is,there isnt really anything you can do about it, you have eczema, and theres no magic cure that can get rid of it, you just have to live your life, when its good and when its bad. Alot of people won't ever understand the actual effect of it on confidence and ive suffered my fair share of being self-concious. Growing up is hard, meeting boys is even worse, my friends complain about boys, but eczema, its always there, in the background. I used to stay as far away as i could from boys. I always told myself well they wont want you when they see all that eczema so just save yourself the hurt and stay away. I always felt the need to explain about my eczema to everyone, that it defined me in someway. My eczema at the moment is on a high, and has been for sometime, there is the odd flare up every few months, but nothing like it used to be. I met a boy, and for the first time, i decided not to explain about my skin, he might not want me if he knew how bad it could look. My skin flared up and my mum said why didnt i just explain? I felt that it was in my past and i shouldnt have to. But in the end it all came out. The effect that eczema has had on my confidence still shows even if the eczema does not, and when i explained to him why my skin got sore sometimes, he didnt even care, he still said i was gorgeous. And the best thing? We broke up... BUT breaking up had nothing to do with my eczema!!!! and that i feel is a turning point in my life. Iv realised that although i wanted to completely erase my childhood growing up with eczema, the hospital stays, all the medicine, the embarassing pictures and red skin, the bandages, i couldnt. It's a part of me. And will be there wherever i go, but doesnt have to effect every aspect of my life. im glad i have eczema, its made me into the person i am today, and shows me that looks arnt important because there is genuine, kind people who dont give a damn wether you have eczema or not, and i dont want to know anyone who doesnt think that, because they arnt even worth it. Dont let exzema and other people ruin your life, because life is too short, and you should be happy that its not anything worse like not being able to walk! x

By Please help me. on Saturday, April 25, 2009 - 12:39 pm:

Hey, I'm a 13 year old girl with horrible red eczema on the inside of my elbows, back of knees, neck and hands! I usually ignore it but now I get what a big deal it can be. My school photos are coming up and more importantly my friend who is an aspiring fashion designer has a designing competition coming up and wants me to model, shes really keen on it and I don't want to let her down. I'm hoping some kind person will comment tips or a good treatment. Just PLEASE help me =] I'd be really happy if you could. Please.

By Desperate on Sunday, March 15, 2009 - 09:42 pm:

I am a 16 year old girl, I get eczema around my eyes. It's so terrible, people think i look like a drug addict. Over the past year it got better and I looked normal. BUT its recently got worse, just like it was a year ago. I feel terrible and am worried I will loose my boyfriend and everything that got better in my life as a result of eczema getting better will go now that it is back.

By Tytou Ngeth on Wednesday, January 14, 2009 - 07:16 am:

Hi my name is Tytou Ngeth and I am 22 year old male. I've been suffering with mild Eczema since I can remember having it. As much as I want to be strong and not have it effect my emotions it does. Everyday I encounter attractive women at work and school and they give me this huge smile (I don't have eczema on my face btw, just on my legs and thighs). And I'm so eager to talk to them but in the back of my mind I feel like if they get to close to me to the point where they end up finding out somehow that my condition with eczema isn't a pleasant site it would scar them away. I know I'm a guy and all and it shouldn't effect me as much but it does believe me. I remember growing up my father would always take me to the beach and for some odd reason my skin would heal itself a bit faster then usual. It's been 10 years since I've stepped foot in the ocean. The main purpose of why I'm writing this is because this is sort of like a confrontation with myself. Not much of one but it's a start I guess. I'm slowly realizing once you accept you for who you are other people will do so too. Furthermore, once spring time hits I'm hitting the beach with some shorts. =)
My heart goes out to all of you suffering from eczema or if you have love ones that does. You are not alone. Peace

By suzanne on Saturday, January 10, 2009 - 10:24 pm:

hey danika,

hang in there, i know its really hard, especially at your age. you want to be out having fun with friends and meeting people, especially guys. its hard enough being a teenager let alone having this horrible condition to deal with.

i don't know if you see a dermatologist, but if you do, there are medications that can help with the itch and redness and help you return to a normal life. there is a medication called cyclosporin it suppresses your immune system. my skin has almost returned to normal. its only a short term answer but at least it gives you a chance to heal and find other ways to deal with this condition. also, diet is important, try and stay away from processed foods, natural is best, drink plenty of water and try and get some light excerise. i also take a probiotic capsuale each morning, this helps promote good bacteria in the gut. there is no one answer and alot of this is trial and error and trying to find out what works best for you.

if you can try and stay away from the steroid creams, i know thats hard, but in the long term they thin the skin and age you prematurely. you have to start trying to heal your body from the inside out and it will take time.

you are a special person with exceptional qualities and i am sure you will find someone who recognises this and can see you for the wonderful person that you are. trust me he is out there you just have to be patient and let your inner beauty shine through.

in the mean time i hope some of the ideas i have said will help you. hang in there and don't give up.

By danika on Saturday, January 10, 2009 - 12:11 am:

hi. my name is danika and i'm 17 years old. i've had severe eczema all my life and as i'm typing this right now it's practically infected. i have it all over my body-which wasn't always like that, but it happened recently. my face and neck are completely disgusting. it makes me so depressed. i usually don't get this sad when i think about my eczema since i know it could be so much worse, but it's so hard. i don't think it will ever go away. i just want to be happy, ya know? i'm so afraid i won't find anyone who could love me. i'm not trying to make anyone feel sorry for me or any crap like that, i'm just writing what i feel.

By lovesunny on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 05:57 am:

hey everyone,

i'm 16 years old and i know my eczema isn't as severe as those who have it all over their body. when i was in elementary school, i had flaky red skin everywhere and kids would ask me all the time what was wrong with my skin. as i got older, the eczema on my arms and face went away. i do not itch as much as i used to but the scars on my legs are still there. i love fashion and it kills me that i can't wear shorts and skirts during the summer. i missed my middle school graduation pool party and i will end up not being able to attend the beach parties after senior prom coming up in june. this disease is not only physically wearing, but also emotionally scarring. i just want this to go away..i want to be able to wear dresses without stockings or leggings and i want to be able to wear shorts during gym class. so many people take the simple task of walking outside in shorts for granted...i dont know if i 'll ever be able to experience that..and it makes me sad. i hate sweating like a pig during school because im wearing jeans in 90 degree weather and i'm tired of people asking me why i don't wear shorts.

By chewinggum on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 06:22 pm:

SHORT DOCUMENTARY ABOUT ECZEMA
hi everyone

I don't know how many of you are part of
the facebook group for people with eczema,
I need a massive favour and pretty soon.
this is to anyone who lives in London.

I'm an 18 year old student doing a dergree in Film and Television. I'm making a documentary as part of my course. This documentary is part of my foundation degree in media: tv and film. I've chosen to do my documentary on something with i feel strongly about. The aim of my documentary is too give a rounded view of what it's like to have eczema (the good the bad and the ugly,) whether I'll do this in a "day in the life," approach or allowing several eczema suffers share up's and downs of living with eczema.

As I have creative control of my project either way i approach it I hope to create an environment whilst filming and or interviewing that insures participants feel comfortable. Which could for example mean- you telling me you only want me to use you're voice in the finished piece.

(I suffer from atopic eczema, and understand the feeling of wanting to just hide.) I feel creating this documentary is a brave step for me and people who hope to participate.

thanks

By Lana on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 - 05:17 am:

hey everyone. I'm 15 years old, and I first got eczema and I was a really little girl. just recently, RIGHT when i started high school, i started to get splotches of eczema on my inner arms, shoulder, lips, and chest. it makes me feel so self conscience, and i always wear long sleeves and sweatshirts to cover it up. i'm trying exederm lotion and a humidifier, but nothing is helping my flare ups. I just want to be able to be confident about my appearance and not feel so embarrassed of my body.

By Becca on Friday, August 29, 2008 - 04:35 pm:

Hiya. I'm a 14 year old girl & I've had eczema since I was a few months old. It's completely annoyed the hell outta me all my life, & It's now August & here I am, sitting at home with bandages covering my red, weeping, itchy skin. I have atopic eczema, & the doctors said it will go away when I get older but I don't wanna wait! My auntie works at college doing skin and beauty & stuff, and she says that vitamin D in the UV at tanning salons helps to calm and regenerate skin, So I'm gonna give it a try! I really wanna be able to wear vest tops with pride next summer.. :/ Wish Me Luck !
If Anyone wants to talk..
hiyyabeccabaabes@hotmail.co.uk

By Rachel on Sunday, May 18, 2008 - 04:42 pm:

Hiya Danser, I have a similar problem. my eczema has left me with horrible brown splodges on my arms and i've been told that i have to wait until they fade. i've had loads of people, including my own friends judge me, saying that i'm self harming which i havn't been. it used to make me feel ugly and unworthy but i came to realise that it's just people being spiteful. Now i do what i want, swimming, dansing, singing, whatever. I know that my friends will support me and that if anyone says anything it's just cos they don't have a clue what's wrong. All you have to do is educate them!
As for treatment, i don't know how effective scar treatments are but using foundation on them (yeh i know a bit wierd!) is really effective. tanning lotion is also good but make sure you buy one for sensitive skin.
If ya wanna chat more please just e-mai me at animal_luver_rocks@hotmail.com
See ya

By Danser_Chelz on Saturday, July 14, 2007 - 11:41 pm:

I've had eczema since October of my Senior year, and it's a killer. I've had so many people come up to me in the hallways and say "Eww, what the hell is that?" in very loud tones. Poeple thought I was contagious, and the school officials got in a fit, which was so annoying and aggravating. I have it just about everywhere - my arms, lower back, (used to) on my face, calves and thighs, and stomach.

I've used Lanacane to help, and it's done a pretty good job. Mainly it was stress (I was working really hard to become Valedictorian, which I did attain my goal). But now I'm stuck with brown-ish spots that aren't going away. I don't know how to get rid of them, but I feel so self-conscious around everyone. I've had people judge me just by my skin (I've had acne problems as well). I still managed to have a good time, but not being able to go out in the sun, or swim, or just wear whatever without worrying about my skin are days long gone.

Anyone know what to do when the eczema isn't red, but just the brown-ish stains? Would scar treatments help it any?

I'm glad I found this website, now I don't feel so alone. It seemed like at my school, I was the only one who had this @^$(@&#@(*%^# stuff, but now I know there's other teenagers out there who know what I'm talking about when I say eczema.

By MC on Friday, July 13, 2007 - 09:26 am:

Hey, Rachie. Wow, you like aqueous? I hate it man. The last time I used it, my skin flared up like hell. Hey, don't worry, at least you have friends. Keep the positive attitude up. Who cares about those jerks anyway? People are all imperfect, but they always see other's imperfection rather than their own. It takes a brave person to admit their imperfection, and I assure you by coming here you are taking the first step. I'll be rooting for you.
MC

By Rachie on Monday, June 25, 2007 - 09:15 pm:

I never knew so many people suffer with excema as well as me.
I have had it since I was 5 months old and am now 14, I have finally had enough! I have gone to see a homeopathic doctor and also a Dermatoligist, I am being a bridesmaid in two weeks and I want my excema to go down enough so I dont feel self consious in my dress! Two creams I wish to advise are both Polyfax and Aqueous. Polyfax stops it being itchy which in theory lets you skin heal more. Also I apply Aqueous EVERY hour, sure this is a bloody pain in the ass but it is worth it.
No. 1 i get out of lessons at school :D
No 2. It keeps my skin moisturised
No 3. I can use it instead of soap.

I am self consious and I refuse to wear shorts or skirts in summer, which is a shame because when I was younger I wasn't self consious at all and have loads of nice skirts ect! I HATE P.E lessons (Sport lessons) as we have to wear shorts and I hate having to be asked whats wrong with your legs? I started to get angry at them, but I know my real friends alwasy back me up and say dont worry no one notices it. BUT THEY DO! I hope I will out grow this but sometimes I look at everyone else and wish why isn't my skin normal like that.

Rach

By MC on Friday, June 15, 2007 - 08:43 am:

KIRSTY! Hey, there! Don't worry or envy ppl. I already mentioned in my other post it's what inside that counts. Please email me or msn me k? It's popstar_fan93@hotmail.com

By KIRSTY! on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 09:09 pm:

IYA.... IM 16-17 YEARZ OLD I HAVE THIS DISEASE SINCE I WAS BORN.. I HATE IT.. IT DRIVE'S ME AROUND THE BEND KEEPING ME UP AT NIGHT SO IM TIRED IN THE MORNING AND MY SHOES DON'T HELP RUBBING AT THE BACK ON A FOOT SO WHEN I TAKE THEM OFF I CAN HARDLY WALK..BUT I DON'T JUST HAVE ONE DISEASE I HAVE THREE ECZEMA ASTHAM AND HAY FEVER..... MY ECZEMA IS WORSE BECAUSE I HAVE IT ALL OVER MY BODY I CAN'T WEAR SHORTS BECAUSE IT SHOW OFF MY EZCEMA AND I GET REALLY EMBARESSED ABOUT PEOPLE ALWAYS ASKING ME WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY SKIN AND I HATE TELLING THEM I WISH I COULD SAY I HAVE NORMALL SKIN LIKE OTHER'S...... I LOVE MY FRIEND'S TO BITS BUT IT UPSETS ME BECAUSE THEY WEAR LOVELY CLOTHES AND DON'T FEEL RIGHT SHOWING MY ECZEMA OFF... ITS HORRID WHEN I FORGET TO PUT MY CREAM ON MY FACE AFTER A BATH OR SHOWER BECAUSE MY FACE GOES DEAD FLAKY.... I HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM WHICH I THINK IS BEACUSE OF MY EZCEMA I HATE IT ALWAYS MAKING MY SKIN LOOK OLDER THAN IT IS.... AND MY CREAM HELPS A BIT BUT IT THINS MY SKIN OUT SO A CAN SEE MY VEINS AND BONES.... IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO TALK ADD ME ON MSN AT xlilkirstyx@hotmail.co.uk thankyou if you read me droning on LOL XXX

By MC on Friday, June 01, 2007 - 04:47 pm:

Hello, Sophie! Your condition reminds me of me. My eczema is on everywhere except for my stomach, back and face. Everywhere else is healing. Yes, I know it's difficult to stand up to the disease. While you may not have your family and your friends sometimes may not understand, you have US here. I'll do my best to help you. Because I have it, I know what it is like to have the diesease and I will try my best to help you, OK? If possible, visit this site often and we can chat OK? Love and kindest regards, MC. PS.

By Sophie on Thursday, May 31, 2007 - 09:22 pm:

Hey, I'm 15 years old, soon to be 16, and I've had eczema all of my life. It depresses me sometimes when I think about my childhood - like how I had to wear mittens in bed - and how my parents 'coped' with it. Now I have eczema on my arms, but mostly my legs. I also have a bad case of flaky skin on my scalp and face, which I sometimes used to get made fun of at school. MC is right, but I know how difficult it is to stand up to this disease. It was hard for me throughout school, because I developed a lack of confidence because of my appearance, and nobody in my family helped me when they could have.
Like most of you here, I also dread Summer, especially because I can't bear my legs. This year I'm breaking the habit of a lifetime and buying a short dress, which I'm going to wear leggings with - bearing my arms! I'm so tired of being like this, and I get so jealous of people with perfect skin that I hate myself sometimes.
I also get the feeling of being alone. Although I have a wonderful best friend who I can get on with, I'm too scared to admit to her about my eczema. The eczema I have, I haven't seen anywhere else, and I have no idea what kind it is as I haven't been to the doctors. I really hope it goes when I get older, and my fingers are crossed for everyone else here.
Don't be afraid to get in touch (deppy_legs@hotmail.co.uk), I'd love to speak with someone
Stay free,
Sophie

By MC on Monday, May 28, 2007 - 03:53 pm:

Hey guys, I'm 14 years old and I have eczema since I was three years old. I totally understand what you guys are going through. If you find medicine to be no help, don't eat it! Don't care what people think of you. Sure, they may be a little wary of you when they first see you, but soon, they'll know you for the beautiful person inside. If you guys are not afraid of being who you are, I'm sure people will begin to like you. Skirts, shorts whatever, WEAR THEM! Love yourself! Stop worrying about it. The more you worry the worse your skin gets. Don't worry about not being loved because of your skin. If the guy/gal truly loves you, they will love you no matter what. Feel free to ask me any questions. Love, MC.

By Kellie on Tuesday, March 27, 2007 - 02:11 am:

Hey,
Im kellie from florida. Ive had eczema since i was born. Now that im a teenager, its calmed down. I have it on my neck, back of my ears, legs, stomach (at belt line) and elbows and on my back. Now that summer is rollin around, its going to be swimsuit season, and i hate it so much. Most girls I know, are confident about themselves, and show up in bathing suits that dont cover the tummys, and then you look at me, i always have to have something covering up my stomach and back. Im so self concious about myself, I start to cry. I dont even like to look at myself, when getting out of the shower, or getting dressed. My mom has been dragging me to docters all my life, and Im so tired of it. So one day I was looking on the internet for treatments, and I found that going to the tanning bed helps. So I talked to my mom, and she was like we can try it if you like. It definately WOORKKKEDD!! Im so happy, A. I have a nice tan. B. I can wair normal bathing suits. I would definately recommend it for everyone. Im so happy i went.

By Rebeca on Tuesday, December 26, 2006 - 05:22 am:

Hey everyone, Im 16 years old and i've had eczema since i was a baby..it used to be all over my body, but it went away with time. Now, i have it on my arms, i'm so self conscious about it. I have to be honest here.. i'll actually worry about people seeing it. I am so glad i found this forum, its nice to know there are people going through the same things.

My whole life, my mom has been dragging me to doctors..and nothing worked. But this year, i found that this cream Vanos really works. But the thing is, i still have bad discoloration marks on my arms where my skin has been through too much stress. Does anyone know anything that works for that?

Everyone, there are people out there who will look down upon you because of this thats just the way our world is. But then there are people, like my best friend, who will support you and see you for you.

I think that the problem we have is also a blessing...having this imperfection makes us stronger and a better judge of character. I hope all of you find something that works for you..and any advice would be wonderful! roxyQTpie2009@yahoo.com

cheers~Rebeca

By kissyr on Sunday, December 10, 2006 - 06:17 pm:

ihave eczema and its the worse please make acure

By Az on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 04:24 pm:

Jen, You're a star and I completely agree with you.

I don't cover up and I wear a lot of black. The Eczema on my face and shoulders and back is bad but I don't care. Anyone who sees me and judges me harshly for something that I have no control over is completely unworthy of my time.

I have people who like me and love me and appreaciate me for who I am, not what I look like. They don't have to like me DESPITE my Eczema because it's not even an issue for them.

I have no time for any one who does have an issue with it. I may go as far as to pity them for how sad and close-minded they are...but that's as far as I care.

By Jen on Sunday, October 08, 2006 - 09:35 pm:

Hey ppl, im Jen, 15 nd suffer frm atopic eczema and hav done since i was 3 months old, great eh? anyway i hav been severely bullied for years and it still continues and bein a teenager is bad enough but as you all know its even worse with eczema and ppl who dont hav it, dont understand. its depressin and can make u feel ugly and maybe even suicidal but dont go there, ur better thn tht, i didnt think i was but am slowly getting stronger and standin up against those horrbile heartless people. so teens listen up, this is to all those evil fuckin horrbile dickheads thats made our lives even more hell, they can all fuck off and die cos we will get better , will find a cure so noone else suffers and prove tht just cos we hav bad skin doesnt mean we arent all perfect and beautiful , it makes us stand out, mayb not always for good but we get notcied and famous ppl help others with needs so why dont we bare all stop covering up and tell those losers to go fuck themselves!!! DO IT NOW, DO IT LOUD AND DO IT PROUD, U OWE URSELF TOO X
email me: xx_blackheart_xx@hotmail.co.uk

By Ashlea on Sunday, September 24, 2006 - 11:13 am:

Hey guys, im ashlea im 16 years old from new zealand. I've had really severe eczema all my life and it does get me down sometimes not only because of the way it feels but because of the way it looks. It affects me everyday, physically, mentally and socially and im sure it will continue to affect me forever and this kind of scares me. I just need to learn to appreciate the days when my skin is good and get through the harder days the best that i can, keeping an optimistic attitude towards it. i would really love to talk to anyone about eczema or other subjects too. anyone whos interested let me know, my emails ashlea06@hotmail.com, keep in touch, stay strong! love ashlea

By steph on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 11:27 am:

Hi, I'm Stephanie. i'm 14. I have excema almost everywhere but my legs are the worst. Reading this page has made me realise I'm not alone in this constant battle.
I think Eczema is terrible. I hate it how I can't wear skirts or shorts and how people stare and either make you feel uncomfortable by not saying anything, or say something and embarass you.
My eczema varies, it can get worse than start to heal. But once it starts to heal, I have another one of those "itchy" nights.
I sometimes wish that I had legs like other girls- smooth and clear.
I hope that the cure will be out soon and that my eczema heals. i'm scared that it won't.

By Lina on Sunday, July 09, 2006 - 10:21 am:

hi im Lina,
i had eczema for about 15 yrs every since i woz born and now and itz starting to calm dwn abit. however i do get itchy and my skin goes red and flares up its not a nice experience i use steroids to help calm it dwn. i had it on my face, and das the worst place to have it because it is impossible to hide and people stare. my face is undercontrol and so is my skin, even though, im still on medication and even though ive been trying i cant get rid of the eczema. it was worse when i was 5 yrs old i was covered in head to toe itching 24/7, ive tried various medication and now that my skin is feeling alot better than before its gone darker coz of all the itching i use to do when i was little. my advice would be try not to scratch as much because your going to end up with really bad scars. my doctor said to me that my eczema should get better as i get older.

By Serena on Thursday, May 18, 2006 - 02:54 pm:

Hi Everyone,

This is Serena who started this discussion topic a few years ago. I haven't written in awhile but I am pleased to say that my eczema is much better than it was and is under control. I am now 20 years old and have learned a lot about what my skin likes and what irritates it. Recently I have been using a great natural product which I would highly recommend, you can find out more at sheaorganics.co.uk.

I wish all of you the best and I hope that you will continue searching to find out what works best for your skin.

Much Love,

Serena

By joanna_cr on Monday, October 17, 2005 - 02:28 pm:

hi, im joanna and im 15 years old have have eczema baov emy top lip. it soun ds like a tiny artea but it manages to spread all over my cheeks and eyes and the worst thing is that i cant even hide it! i mean its slap bang in the middle of my face. ive recently felt really bad about this because ive been doing work experience in a paediatricians ward at a hospital in london and the kids seem terrified of me - although i suppose i do look like i have some foreign disease! anyway just thought id add that, bye xxxx

By Hayley on Friday, October 07, 2005 - 12:33 pm:

I recommend a book called "The Eczema Solution" by Sue Armstrong-Brown. I know this doesnt advertise it well, but I did try it, it step by step makes you in control of your skin not the other way round. I didn't have enough will-power to make it happen. But i urge others to try it as I truly believe it can greatly improve your eczema so that you only have minor flare-ups from time to time, and even then you can sort it out. Maybe I will try it again soon.

By Eczema Voice on Thursday, September 22, 2005 - 10:14 am:

Case studies for Sugar magazine
Hi there,

I am a freelance writer for teenage magazines and I hope you may be able to help me.

I have been asked to write a feature for top-selling teenage girls' magazine Sugar and am looking for four girls aged 13-18 who all have an unusual or striking facial feature that makes them stand out from the crowd. The article will be a confidence-boosting feature for readers about 'real' girls with 'real' looks - the idea being that you don't have to have so-called 'perfect' symmetrical features and skin type to be a model in a magazine.

I would very much like to talk to a teenage girl who suffers from eczema and the way it affects their day-to-day life. The piece would also help to raise awareness of eczema amongst readers.

Sugar will treat all the participants to a day's professional photo shoot, make-over and styling. (I'm sure they can find extra-sensitive products suitable for eczema sufferers). Of course, they will also get to see themselves looking gorgeous in Sugar magazine.

I wonder if I might be able to ask anyone interested to get back to me, or if preffered via a moderator on your site? I would be very grateful if someone could get back to me with the best way to pursue this.

Kind regards,
Alice

Please contact us on info@eczemavoice.com and we can forward your e-mail on
thank you for your support

Davinder

By Pam on Monday, June 27, 2005 - 02:50 pm:

Rob

So true, one day we will win this battle. Keep Strong.

By Rob on Monday, June 27, 2005 - 05:29 am:

Some people may not understand
Why we need our creams at hand
24 hours every day
the itch rarely goes away
early morning or late a at night
constant battle, mental fight
some people stare
but good people are not rare
judge me not
my skin feels hot
stay strong
we may right this wrong
no one lives a perfect life
count your blessings
not your scars..

good luck everyone

By Cora on Saturday, June 25, 2005 - 10:36 am:

Gina for John- I feel for you. My friend's son had eczema that covered from his head to toes from age 4-12 years. The only clear spot was his nose. No medication of any type or creams have helped. One day he just decided he was going to stop scratching and he has no recurrence of eczema. It took a lot of willpower. He ended up with an elbow surgery from many infections. He's now in his 30's and just had cataract surgery in both eyes due to overuse of powerful steroids as a child. My son, 2 1/2 years old has eczema since 3 months old. He was covered from head to toes with eczema and is now starting to get better. He now has the eczema around his eyes and ears. I sympathize with all of you. I discovered that staying away from all fried foods and processed foods has helped my son tremendously in his healing. I hope that might help you as well.

By Gina for John on Friday, June 24, 2005 - 01:31 pm:

Hi, first I want to say that I think you are all brave, wonderful people and my heart goes out to you all. My son John has had atopic eczema since he was a baby (he is now 13½). We were told he would 'probably grow out of it' by the time he was 7, as it comes in 7 year cycles. That was the first load of c*** we've been told and not the last. We have tried everything for him (as many of you have)- Hoemeopathic, Chinese, exclusion diet, creams, anti-histamines, anti-biotics etc etc. We have been both NHS and Private. Currently I feel sure it is getting mixed up with his hormones (which gives us no hope in hell). At the moment he has eczema from his head to his toes and finds water (bath or shower - hot, warm or cool) makes him itch like mad. Yet he needs to keep clean and keep the Staph bugs at bay. If he wears white or light coloured tops they get covered in blood, if he wears black or dark they show up the flaky white skin and dandruff. He says he's not bothered by it as he's 'used to it' but I think he is just being extremely brave. He also says why bother with all the palaver that he has to go through, 'as nothing works'. We need help to but we are with you all. XXXX

By rose on Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 10:58 am:

hello. im so glad to have found this forum. i suffer from eczema,mainly on my hands and feet but have in the past had outbreaks of it all over my body. my step mum had recently bought me a cream made from plant oils and its really good.

By Leia on Friday, April 15, 2005 - 08:27 pm:

I hate to say it, but it feels good to know that there are other people, teens, that have eczema too. i'm 18 and just started having REALLY bad break-outs last year. my legs and face are usually the worst. i hate looking so red and blotchy and being itchy! but i'm really lucky in that i have a great boyfriend who doesn't care how red and flaky i get, and he even helps with lotioning up!
On the really bad days, i think back to a couple years ago and think how i used to be able to wear whatever and not look red. but that only makes me feel worse.

By Catherine on Monday, April 11, 2005 - 08:10 pm:

Hey!

I'm 19 and have had eczema all my life, its everywhere on my body and I suppose it can get pretty bad sometimes! (Don't you just hate those days when you wake up and you know it's all red and sore and nasty and it hurts too and you just want to stay in bed and not let anyone see you!?!)

Anyway what I wanted to say is that I know it can be really really tough sometimes but don't let it rule your life!!! Most people honestly don't care, especially if you explain what it is. Everyone is different right? So this is your difference!! The only person who's opinion should matter on stuff like this is YOU, so if you are confident in yourself then your skin is just something else that makes you who you are! If its a big deal for you then it becomes a bigger deal! I honestly do know that it can be really tough even to go outside fully covered up some days, let alone to say go to a party during a flare-up, but don't let it stop you enjoying life to the full!

[And plus it is a handy excuse for spending hours in the bathroom! Bring it up and everyone is always fine with it ;-)]

Have a good week
Love Catherine x

By kim on Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 03:45 am:

Lost-
Congratulations on getting a job in your field right after college...I know a lot of people who have graduated last year and still are not in the careers they wanted for themselves right out of school.
Sucks about your room but you have such a short amount of time left. I hope you are able to survive the next few months and get on with your post-uni life.
Don't worry about your career until you are there. Worrying about 'what if' right now is futile and an unneccesary cause of stress which you don't need now. I thrive off of stress in the workplace, but emotional stress flares my eczema up to no avail.
As for the itch on your back, try a pain relief topical (like praxamine...Neoporin has a pain relief formula which I promote and promote here since it saved my sanity countless times or Prax lotion which you can get from dermadoctor.com). itch relief never worked or it contained something which burned and hurt even worse than the original itch.
Be sure your post-uni residence does not hinder your health like your current room. Do something which you have a passion for and take a break every day, even if its just 30 minutes, to be YOU and not an eczema victim.

As for your PS- Eczema is NOT inherited. The tendency to have it is. I have eczema and another autoimmune skin disorder, I am a alopecia survivor (my skin has gone through it all) and my son, who is almost 5 years old, has GORGEOUS, flawless skin. You cannot hinder your life out of fear of the unknown. You get one shot at life- just 'do the damn thing' (quote from some movie, oh, 'Blue Crush')

Chat here and read as much as you like. Venting anonymously here is great therapy. The more comfortable you get here with your eczema, the more you will be offline as well....

By Lost on Monday, March 21, 2005 - 04:16 pm:

I can't imagine I can be so lucky to find this page.
I thought I would have to feel lonely for the rest of my life.
I'm 22 and have suffered from eczema since I was three. To be honest, I don't think I am a teenager anymore, but since I am still at Uni (obviously a finalist), I suppose there won't be any generation gaps between me and the many brave eczema fighters here =)


More than a week has passed since the start of the Easter Vacation. I had to vacate my original room in hall and moved to an off-site accommodation. Allergic to dust mites, I knew the heaving of dust deal to the packing and unpacking would worsen my eczema, but regardless of how much medical proof I possess, my Uni declined my request to stay in my original room. Although I wore a mask and made myself look like a fool during the move, the move has seriously aggravated my eczema. (The law "Disability Discrimination Act 955" actually gives me the right to request 'reasonable adjustments' from my educators. But I don't feel right forgoing my time and peace and relationship with my college to enforce the law. I tried writing a letter to my accommodation manager, wanting to make her aware of what she has done to me, but my dad said it would a foolish act and a complete waste of time. What would I get out of this? I didn't send the letter in the end.) I can at most say that the accommodation manager is ignorant (could not assess the severity of my illness), but who is to be responsible for my originally avoidable flare up? No one.

I fell into deep depression for a few days. The itch on my back made it impossible for me to sleep at night, and the tiredness made it impossible for me to study during the day time. I cried everyday. I have passed my teens and I know that I will be living with this tedious and incurable illness for the rest of my life. I've always thought: "Me and my greatest enemy have merged into one. What can be more ironic?" I can't wear make up nor let my hair down like all other girls do. Losing control over my own health, I occasionally try to regain control over my self by abusing food (DON'T do that. You will only feel worse afterwards). Still remember how I held my box of steroid into the rain, hoping that the heavenly drops could cleanse my skin. I was a child then...but the scene is still so vivid in my mind.

Amazingly, I got a job offer after only having 4 telephone interviews. My employer hasn't even seen me in person before giving me a contract. I would be joining a rather prestigious firm after I graduate. Yet, I'm extremely worried that my eczema will affect my career. What if I have a flare up the day before an important client meeting? I'm from a city where girls are extremely obsessed about looks and people treat others according to their appearance and social status (Well, in my opinion). People work crazy hours and taking days off due to severe flare-ups seems to be impossible. My friends think I'm challenging my physical limits to work in such a stressful industry, since stress and eczema form a vicious cycle. Besides, already constantly suffering from insomnia, they don't see how I am going to survive the crazy hours. Yet, if I have the brain, do I really have to give in to my evil illness? (Physically, I cannot but give in. I can't concentrate due to the itch. Psychologically, I'm very teary whenever I have flare-ups. Sigh...)

I suppose I shouldn't go on to bore everyone. Prepared to struggle with yet another serious flare up at the end of the Easter vacation when I have to move back to my original room, I know I will fall into depression again. Some of my friends are already fed up with my pessimism. Perhaps I should still wear a smile on my face when my skin burns. I have felt inferior to everyone ever since I was a child, and I know with the lack of understanding from other people, I will continue to feel so for the rest of my life.

P.S. Eczema is inherited right? Does it mean that I would be deprived of the right to motherhood if I cannot bear to see my children (if I am to have any) going through what I've gone through? Or if I don't want to go through what my parents have gone through?

By Baz on Thursday, March 17, 2005 - 04:10 pm:

Ivan
I agree with Kim and Ruth - you should tell people and try not to close yourself off.
I also believe (rightly or wrongly) that eczema is very cureable, there are plenty of people that completely overcome their eczema. It's normal to react negatively when you are hit with bad news but you need to be positive and find some answers. Try and trace what caused the eczema to start with (everything has a cause) and try and find what makes it better or worst and how to manage it. The answers are out there....

By ruth on Thursday, March 17, 2005 - 10:24 am:

Ivan - I am a mum too and i can tell you that if you were my child or even a friend/relative or someone important to me - I would tell you the same as what Kim has said to do. You need to approach this as you will have to other problems in life - not by avoiding them - but by facing them - because nothing goes away if you avoid it. In fact - what you are discovering is in fact that it is actually getting worse. The help and support that you need from others is living right under your roof - they can help you connect with the right medical help and also support you through this. It isnt the end of the road - it probably just feels like it at the present time, but you need to get some help for this. Contrary to what you think, I know that i would feel an extraordinary sense of relief if my child asked or confided in me that they needed help - not worry. Worry comes from the NOT telling rather than the telling. Once you know what the problem is - then you can do something abou it. As you are now growing into an adult - you have to be able to start discussing your problems and look at ways to manage them - your parents i am sure will help you with this. i hope things go well for you

By kim on Tuesday, March 15, 2005 - 04:11 pm:

Ivan-
You found a great website here with a lot of supportive people.
As a mom, I would recommend you tell your mom about your eczema. I am sure she has noticed all of the time you have been spending in the bathroom and she may be concerned already. As a parent, not knowing what is wrong is far worse than knowing. Let her help. Plus the emotional support alone will help you with your eczema (stress makes it worse).
What did your doctor recommend? What does your eczema look like? Does it itch alot? And most of all, did you get a second opinion (I got 4 before I was correctly diagnosed).

Hang in there...

By Ivan on Monday, March 14, 2005 - 06:05 am:

Hi, my name is Ivan
I'm a 16 year old boy who was carefree and happy. About a month ago I was scraped on my hand... from that day onwards, it got infected and somehow i broke out with eczema.. At first I thought it was impetigo but when i went to a dermatologist, he hit me with the news. I'm am very depressed that I was hit with this incurable sickness.. I don't know how to cope I'm so down. I didn't tell my parents of the severity of my condition, how could i? I didn't want them to get worried, I only needed to know but now, all hell has broken loose. They will find out sooner or later... Why me... sometimes i just spend hours in the bathroom tending to my body with creams... I get so tired... God, why...

By Serena on Wednesday, February 16, 2005 - 06:31 pm:

I'm back! I hope everyone is finding the support they need within this forum because I know that it's physically and emotionally painful to deal with eczema on your own. I'm 19 and at Uni now enjoying my studies. My eczema is now fairly mild and under control. My advice to anyone is to keep trying new things because some products may not work for other people but may just help ease your situation. At the moment I use intensive moisturising creams that you can buy of the shelf at boots etc along with Eumovate when I get the odd flare up. I've found that long soaks in the bath had a major part in improving my skin condition (at least 20 min) but only with oil-based bath products like Oilatum, Johnsons baby moisture bath and Simple Moisturising Bath Cream.
Girls don't worry bout what boys might think! If he's too immature to see through the eczema he's definitely not worth your time. I had low self-esteem and used to worry about what guys would say if they got tosee my skin (much of my eczema was hidden), but now I've found a fantastic guy who's very supportive and doesn't define me by the condition of my skin.

I'm very encouraged by all of the testimonies on here because this is a space where we can each offer each other the support, advice and even a shoulder to cry on that we all need.
Take care and God bless, Serena

By FaintlyForgotten on Tuesday, January 18, 2005 - 05:35 am:

to quote a post i found else where on this site but i think we all need to read:

"It seems there are a lot of people like me for whom the skin condition has become a significant part of their mental makeup. If you are even more like me you are just as sick of people not understanding how one can be depressed or stressed when one is not "Unwell".

How many times has some cretin told you to "Stop Scratching" Have you ever felt like opening a vein up and spraying blood all over their face? Or maybe just going over them lightly with some sand paper and then saying, "Now leave that alone!"

My eczema is not going away in a hurry and I have lived with it for a long time. I am getting really tired of people who have a cure that "Absolutely fixed their friends brothers dogs trainers sister in laws bookies dermatitis" and who don't realize how mentally debilitating and exhausting dealing with the constant lack of understanding can be.

Sure there are people who are worse off - but this pain is mine, it is ongoing and it is not going to go away. It is a life sentence with no parole. Whatever I did in my previous life must have been pretty awesome." ~Faun-a

that about covers it dont u think?! i say we share this lovely message with others... makes me feel good 2 kno im not the only 1 developing a sick humor in relation 2 this god forsaken disease... and yes... it IS a disease... no matter wut ne 1 else says!!!!!

By JayLara on Sunday, January 02, 2005 - 04:59 pm:

hi all, this is my first time evr here and the feeling is tremendous. i used to live in south africa with my dad and in june last year i moved to kenya to live with my mum. i was terrible. i have servere eczema. i never used to notice cause i was a kid and evryone around me was used to it and i think it had just stopped reacting so much cause i was used to the environment.but kenya was different, everyone kept asking and evryone doesnt understand. my wardrobe now consists of trousers and long sleeved tops. i cant stand it. i breakout on my whole arm, entire leg and up to my chest through to my face. its scary. the itching is crazy. i sometimes lock myself in my bedroom for hours thinking "why me".

i cant stand it.

By lydia on Wednesday, December 29, 2004 - 03:46 am:

Hello Andy,

Eczema is also known as atopic dermatitis. There's another similar type of skin condition called psoriasis. Both eczema and psoriasis are skin conditions that always comes and goes, depending on the triggering factor such as food, stress etc but from my experience, eczema is the more sensitive and highly allergic one. It's best if you'll have a dermatologist to diagnose the actual condition you are having so that the appropriate treatment can be given.
Cheers,

By Andy on Tuesday, December 28, 2004 - 11:58 pm:

Hey guys, I'm 19 and it is my first time here. I really don't know what I have, but the symptoms I have been looking up on the internet, I'm thinking it could be eczema. But you all seem to get rashes all over different parts of your body when mine seems concentrated in one area. It is in the groin area. I originally treated it as a fungal infection. It seems to come and go and just when I think it's completely gone, it reappears again. My skin becomes bright red and greasy. I would just like to know if any of you can help me understand if this is indeed eczema or another rash like say dermatits. Because I'm beginning to think it isn't a fungal infection

By UntypicalAngel on Friday, December 10, 2004 - 05:03 am:

Molly - im gunna tell u the same thing i say to all that i come in contact with.... i have no miricle cure... all i can do is offer u wut has helped with me... which is sayin alot since none of the damn perscriptions help mine... so.. that being said.... try using a cream that i found... its called the water blocker skin cream made by the honey guy... u can find it at www.thehoneyguy.com... its worked for me... n i... like u have tried it all.... but this cream is great... it isnt greasy like all the others... n it isnt even shiney... just put it on (preferably really thick, as it will quickly soak into skin like ours)... give it a minute or 2 to soak in... n ur good to go... itll make ur skin stop itchin so terribly... n it locks moisture in by blockin out all things that can take it away... water will just bead up n roll off ur skin... its great! plus, its completely natural so its safe 2 use on ur face... i do all the time... just uh... keep it out of ur eyes let me kno if i can be of ne further assistance...

~UntypicalAngel~

untypicalangel@yahoo.com

"every where i look around, i see how every thing ought to be. every time i see myself, theres always something wrong with me" ~Linkin Park - Part of Me

By molly on Saturday, December 04, 2004 - 02:19 am:

Im 15 years old and i also have chronic eczema, i get it all over. i get it on my legs arms and sometimes my stomach. just 2 days ago it got onto my face. its so depressing. i usually manage to hide it. it sucks rell bad becuz ppl in school notice nd they either stair constantly or comment about it. most of the people thinks its acne. to a point, i wish it was. theres probably something that would get rid of acne for me if i had it, but nothin works on my eczema. if anyone has a good idea please tell me.. i cant go another day with this on my face.. i feel like i have some kind of weird disease

By UntypicalAngel on Sunday, September 26, 2004 - 04:20 am:

Ok... so all that i said in my last post about stayin positive... im havin trouble takin my own advice... over the past 3 days my face has gotten so bad i dont even recognize myself in the mirror... i wake up with swollen eyes n cheeks... my forhead nose cheeks n chin r all dry itchy n peelin... not to mention the crap around my lips... i dont even want to open my eyes in the mornin cuz i can feel how swollen they r before i try... everything in my house is officially covered in my dead skin cells... im sure this is real healthy... cant get 2 the doc til monday n its only sat. he'll be nice n give me a corizone shot... n within a day ill be healing again... then the trick its to keep it that way... until then... im sufferin n in need of comfort

~UntypicalAngel~

By fuzzy on Sunday, July 04, 2004 - 01:45 pm:

hey hilary-u snt a post in 2003-i hope u still come ere-i have my eczema on my face 2-brite red+dry+it swells-iz urz da same???how much waz ur capsules??

By Untypicalangel on Thursday, May 20, 2004 - 03:40 am:

Bonitochia,
Hey... I know your situation... I've been there. I'm still there. We will always struggle with this. The scars you have, you might want to get checked out. Eczema doesn't scar, so maybe something else is wrong. Believe me... my ear was so broke out at 1 point, it should have fallen off. But I don't have a single scar. And, by the way, I'm 17 and have had severe "atopic dermatitice" since I was born. In other words... really really bad eczema. I just recently had an amazing break through. After 4 years of being severely broke out to the point of constant infection, I'm clear!!! I can acctually lead a half way normal life now. Just know, that I feel for you bonitochia, and all of you who are suffering right now. When you've hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up. So, to help you get up faster, here are some tips that I've acquired over the years:
1) take quick cool showers every other day... no baths! water dries out your skin.
2) Do NOT use fabric softener with your clothes. It causes unnecessary friction... your clothes will be statiky for a while... but trust me.. it helps.
3) Try using "All Free and Clear" Detergent. It helps cut down on all things allergy related. I've got severe allergies as well, so big help im my case.
4) Try to reduce stress as much as possible... Stress is a big trigger in setting off a break out.
5) Find what works best for you. In my case, puttin on my Temovate cream first and then coverin it by a water blocker skin cream clears me up every time. (Try "The Honey Guy Water Blocker Skin Cream available at www.thehoneyguy.com)
6) Seek medical attention at the first signs of a serious break out. Notice small bumps under the skin in places you usually break out. These are usually the sign that in a couple days and plenty of hours of scratchin, your gunna have an outbreak.
7) Last but not least, stay positive. I know its hard, but all the time and energy you exert to being negative is time and energy you could have put toward caring for your skin and getting better.
Keep your chin up! If you ever need to talk, I'm here for you. I wish you all much success!

By bonitochica on Monday, May 17, 2004 - 12:25 am:

Hi, I'm a 14 years old girl, and I suffer from severe eczema, along with that I also have Asthma, and Allergies. I got to 3 doctors (a)Asthma and Allergies Doctor (b) Dermotologist and (C)my regular doctor. I travel 2 hours juss to get to the Dermotologist. And my Asthma and Allergie doctor has tryed so much things to keep my eczema under control, and it looks like he's losing hope. I've had eczema ever since I was 4 months. I have eczema on my arms, legs, neck, face, on my eye lids, and on my back. When summer comes around I rarely ever wear shorts, cuz it's embarssing. And I have so many scars from scrathing. I am depressed almost all the time and I isolate myself most of the time. It's easy to isolate my self now since I'm homeschooled. And it seems like guys like me as a friend or like a sister, but never n e thing more. And I think mainly cuz it's my eczema and all the scar on my body. I thought one year suicide was the answer but I never went through with it. Most of my depression is mainly cuz because my dad left me went I was little and always told me that I wasn't his, and called me ugly because I had eczema. And then my mom works full times, so I rarely get to see her. I guess not having the love that I need in my life n also having all these health issues rilly brings me down.

By Ashley on Wednesday, February 25, 2004 - 04:32 pm:

hi my name is ashley and i'm 18 years old and going into my 2nd yr in college. i have had eczema from birth, when i was an infant my parents made me wear gloves on my hands so i wouldn't burise my skin. but i've been struggling with it forever and i'm soooo tired of having to deal with it. i've tried every thing imaginable to reduce my symptoms but i belive the best medicine is acceptanc. when you find a medication that helps to heal the scars stick with it because there is no magic cure, but until then just live your life and do what makes you happy.my breakouts used to be very severe and sometimes still are but i've learned to cope with the pain of experiencing the ignorance of others. because over the years i have truely come to realize that NO ONE is perfect, NO ONE! we all as humans have our faults, some on the out side and others are hidden. i also THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER FIND LOVE because of it, but i'm here to tell you there is someone out there for everyone no matter how severe the disease or problem, God will send you that person who will see past the scars and look into your heart. I know because he sent mine!
*KEEP YOUR HEADS HELD HIGH AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY YOU IN THE WORLD SO REPRESENT AND STAY STRONG!!!!!!!!!

By nicola on Wednesday, January 28, 2004 - 12:57 pm:

Does any1 ever feel like they dnt wanna go to sleep cuz of what they'll wake up to the next mornin? I'm missin loadsa college cuz i cant face it anymore. Any1 got any tips on how to get off to sleep at night without tearin themselves to pieces?

By Serena on Sunday, January 04, 2004 - 01:43 pm:

Hi everyone,

I'm the one who started this topic on 'self-consciousness'. I'm now 18 and my eczema has almost completely cleared. I'd really like to encourage anyone who's suffering with their eczema. Sometimes you want to give up because you feel like nothing works - keep trying. I've experimented with so many different creams, I now find that the ones that moisturise the best are the one's you can find in your local Superdrug (try St. Ives 'Collagen Elastin' hand & body lotion - dry skin)

My type of eczema was very severe, funnily enough it seemed to drastically improve after I dropped A-level chemistry last summer. I've now learned that if there's something in your life really stressing you try and get rid of it or reduce it, you'll notice a big improvement!

I hope that something I wrote will be helpful :-)

Much love to you all

By Pam on Thursday, September 18, 2003 - 03:06 pm:

Totally understand, I too have eczema all over my body including my hands and feet I went to Dubai on holiday recently and it was far too hot to cover up so I braced myself and went on the beach I was so nervous of people watching but you know what not many people did I think they were too busy relaxing it was so nice walking around not feeling conscious and I even met some lovely people who didn't care what I looked like.

By Lauren on Wednesday, September 17, 2003 - 09:25 pm:

Hey everyone,
I know how it is, I break out EVERYWHERE all of the time, and it's mostly the stuff that looks like acne except for on my hands where it gets extremely dry and it turns red and it's scaly.
:-( even though I do have a lot of people that say it's no big deal, I still feel VERY self consious about it ALL of the time... I hate wearing shorts and short sleeved shirts..it also doesn't help that I am like 5'6 and weigh 163 lbs. :-s I just wish that people could stand in my shoes for a while and see how it is...but then I also wouldn't want anyone to have to deal with what I have to. I guess everyone has their quirks, I just wish that I didn't have any. But, now I see that I'm not alone, I'm glad this board is here.

By Minifig on Sunday, July 27, 2003 - 11:27 am:

I'm not really a teen any more (22) but I completley understand the self-concious feeling
Summer is the worst, when people ask you "how can you stand to wear pants in this heat?" I just want to answer with a punch to the face... but that of course doesn't happen.
Latley my confidence has gone up, finding support groups like this one helps...
The next time some ignorant person feels the need to point out your eczema, I find it's best to just simply (and calmly, if you can) explain to them... "Actually I have eczema, a non-contagious skin condition, dealing with it has it's stresses and I'll thank you not to contribute to that"
or something along those lines

Anywho, I wish everyone good luck in their dealings/recovery, and just don't be to down on yourselves, okay? you didn't ask to get eczema and you're def. not alone

you can feel free to email me if you want to talk

By Eileen on Monday, June 30, 2003 - 03:41 pm:

hi guys....
I'm currently 16, but I'm gonna be 17 next month. I wasn't born with eczema. It begin with rashes behind my knees when I was 12, and as I grew older it got worse and worse.Now, I have it on my ams and legs mostly..its true that I felt like what most of you felt. Going to school was a nightmare most of the time, especially when my school uniform consisted of a short sleeve blouse and skirt...and everyday I admire my schoolmates' flawless arms and legs. Most of the time you feel alone out there, and sometimes after a particularly bad day you cry yourself to sleep. And many times I used to recall those good times when I was 6 or 7 when I could wear short skirts and pants with ease. At that time I had no idea how lucky I was, but now I do. The worse thing I hate about school was physical education class. I had it twice a week and we had to change into shorts for that class...I never enjoyed a single minute of that class, I felt self-conscious all the time, but my friends were very supportive, they treated me as an equal, because of them, school didn't seem all that bad...at times , I hated myself, I hated the world and I hated God. I often wonder why out of so many people I had to be the unlucky one........But I guess no one has a perfect life, although I have eczema, I''m still fortunate enough to have a roof over my head, clothes on my back,and food in the fridge. So, in many other ways I am more fortunate then major of the people on earth, so you see, whenever I felt depressed about my skin, I will alway remind myself that there's alway someone out there in this world that is worse of then me. And sometimes , when I go shopping, I spot a beautiful dress, and even though its sleveless and knee height or something, if its not too expensive, I'll buy it.... I have got one or two of these dresses on my closet, though I never dare to wear them out, I do sometimes wear them at home. Why deny yourself the luxury of wear beautiful dresses just because you have eczema? Never let eczema get the better of you, if you do, then you have already lost the battle. I know its diffcult, but its important to have faith....
I believe that one day, I will win this battle..

By Beth on Friday, May 30, 2003 - 12:09 pm:

Hey everyone,
I'm so glad to have come across this website, as sometimes it feels like I am alone in all this. I'm 19 years old and have had eczema since birth. Like a lot of you,I was told by doctors that I would eventually grow out of it...well I have'nt. In fact, it has gotten worse over the years. Not only do I have to face the humiliation of red skin when I go out, I also have alopecia(hair loss), so my confidence recently is extremely low.Does anyone else feel like NOONE else has bad skin when you look around?
Im lucky enough to have great friends that understand when I feel a a bit teary. What upsets me is when I am going through a a bad patch and I take it out on my mum-she is devastated by this as is my dad...but we always take it out on the ones we love.I hate the anger that comes with eczema-and theres not a doctor in the world that can cure that.
Take care of yourselves everyone
Bethxxx

By IT on Friday, May 23, 2003 - 03:52 pm:

Try using Aloe Vera Moisturiser on your whole face as frequently as possible. If topical cream is needed, just apply directly after the Aloe Vera Mosituriser dried up(just few mins!).

Hopefully it'll help you as it's helping me!

By beckie on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 09:32 am:

hi im 16 and i've had eczema all my life, theres neva been a day wen i felt confident about my skin. everyone notices and comments, and some days it really brings me down. All i want is to hav NORMAL skin!!!!!!! i try so hard not to scratch cuz everyone moans at me, but its so hell. im glad ive found this website cuz at least theres some support for suffers of eczema. Ive got my school prom in a few days but my eczma is gettin worse, all i want is to hav clear skin, just for one night. Its got better over the years but everything i try it doesnt seem to work, my doctors are complete crap and havent perscribed anything thats helped. im completly stuck, i dont no what else to try! feel free anyone to lend some advice!!!!!

By Jo on Saturday, May 10, 2003 - 10:02 am:

I find sometimes my skin gets really itchy and when I scratch it I get shouted at which makes me get really angry and sometimes I whish I was someone else.

By Lori on Friday, May 09, 2003 - 02:37 am:

Hey, my name is Lori and I have had eczema ever since I was born...it cleared up for awhile but lately it has been really really bad. I am at the age now where I am getting tired of all this. I don't want to worry about what others are going to say. I was wondering if anyone out there knew of any kinda of laser treatment or something in that area. I heard from the grapevine that it was possible but I have no idea????

By Lisa on Saturday, May 03, 2003 - 05:02 pm:

I am 13 and I was born with servere eczema.I have it on my face, neck, legs, and arms. It really bothers me when I go to gym. I have to wear shorts and short sleves in gym and everyone who doesn't know me stares at me. Most of my friends know that I have eczema, and they back me up if someone who doesn't know me makes fun of me. I also have asthma and allergies, it runs in both sides of my family. I barley wear shorts and shortsleves in the summer because my eczema looks so bad. My dermotologist really doesnt help me. All the things that he perscribes me doesn't work or make my eczema worse. My mom is looking for a new dermotologist because he keeps on perscribing me medicinces for people that have mild and moderate eczema. That doesn't work for me. I hope doctors will find a cure for eczema. But for right now all I can do is hope and share my experinces with others.

By hilary on Friday, May 02, 2003 - 05:35 pm:

Hi Everyone,
Its me again =) I got really desperate this weekend with the eczema on my face... so I dug out a tub of Fish body oil capsules I found in the cupboard. It worked like magic for me, I started it Sunday night and five days later it is gone without a trace. Fish oil is an omega-3, I was already taking GLA which is an omega-6. Both are great for eczema but because I had been taking GLA I only needed the Fish oil. PLEASE at least try them everyone - they are great!
Hope this helps!
Hilary

By hilary on Sunday, April 27, 2003 - 04:48 pm:

Hi everyone,
I am a 15-year old girl. I have had on and off eczema for the past 5 years, on my face and hands. I recently got a horrible flare-up of eczema between my nose and upper lip and it is spreading. I have been on holiday but I am dreading having to go back to school and have everyone staring at me, or at least feeling that way. Nothing seems to be working =(

By Alan on Monday, March 31, 2003 - 04:42 pm:

Hi Blue,
I'm pretty happy now. I've now been put back on that Protopic cream. My skin is quite good. It really makes a difference on my general feeling of myself when my skin's good. Alan

By Blue on Wednesday, March 26, 2003 - 05:01 pm:

Hi Alan
Yeah i know wot u mean. Im exactly the same. Im so used to scratchin- and the fact that it feels good to scratch doesnt help- Though u regret it after. Lately iv been very itchy and i seem to try everthing.
Wen ever i start to feel itchy- i take an antihistimine, i use piriton which seems to work. also i find that if ur in a hot room with heatin on it can make u worse so wen it gets like that turn the heatin off or sit ina cooler room and try to relax! Gettin stressed doesnt help.
If u wanna scratch try pinchin the area or addin a cold compress. It may help.
I think iv found how to reduce my scratchin- and thats by lookin at my skin in its current condition. Knowin that if i keep on im gonna be covered in scars- which will make me feel self consious later. It is hard and i do know wot ur feelin! Ur not alone.
Love Blue xxx

By Alan on Tuesday, March 25, 2003 - 07:13 pm:

Hi Blue,
My skin is quite soar at the mo. It really stings. I think the ploblem that i've got is that i am so used to scratching, most of it is down to habit. Do you have any ideas or ways that will stop me from scratching when i don't need to.
Thanks
Alan

By Blue on Tuesday, March 25, 2003 - 11:40 am:

hi ya Alan!
Hows ur skin today then?
Believe me we all know wot ur goin thru and how it can affect u! U can hav good and bad days and even terrible days- yet no1 seems to really understand it! Well thats wot we r here for. If u need to talk to any1 just keep posting. Ur not alone.
Love Blue xxx

By Alan on Monday, March 24, 2003 - 06:33 pm:

Hello, My name is Alan and I am 13 and I have got bad eczema. Most of my friends don't understand and ask me questions. But i haven't got the courage to keep telling them why i am so red, and itchy. Does anyone out there with eczema want to talk to me. It would be nice to talk to someone who knows what it's like and how painful it is.

By Anonymous on Tuesday, March 04, 2003 - 08:22 pm:

hello, I have recently had an issue with my parents, causing tons of stress on me and i was living in a bad situation, of course my eczema got worse, then came exam times and my eye started to get red and puffy, at first i thought it was pink eye. I went to the doctors and i found out i had eczema around my eye. This has been really stressful on me. I hate the fact i have eczema already. Now I'm worried that my eye's will start to bleed, ill look like crap and i would be harassed about it a lot!! I'm mainly worried because i can't concentrate on school, and bright lights really hurt my eyes. :S what should i do? I've tried the cream but it's hard to keep putting it on every day 3 times a day! :S

By Legolas on Thursday, February 20, 2003 - 09:15 pm:

Hey Kat,
I know what you mean!! I don't know whos worse, children or adults!
You should have told you teacher what you think, maybe they would think next time they open their mouth.

By Kat on Thursday, February 20, 2003 - 01:34 am:

i know i just posted a message yesterday but this really annoys me..ok today i was at lunch and my math teacher walks by and saw the back of my back (which is REALLY broken out) and says (in front of everyone i was sitting with and they all know i have eczema) "what did u do sled into a briar patch?" that really made me mad..ugh i mean cant people just keep their mouths shut? especially adults that should know to THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!

By Kat on Wednesday, February 19, 2003 - 01:39 am:

Hey, I'm 13 and have had eczema since i was 2 months old. When i was in elementary school my eczema wasn't as bad. But now its worse than ever. It seems like when it's the time in your life that you care most about how you look like your eczema gets worse. It's hard dealing with eczema day to day because not everyone is used to it. I have people come up to me everyday asking "what's that red stuff on your arm?" or "Ewww, what is that?" It gets hard and i've gotten to the point where i just say "a rash" and walk off. But that gets harder to do everyday. I have eczema on my neck, arms, back, legs, and its starting to spread to my face (again), so it's kinda hard to miss.The worse part about having eczema is dealing with people. I try not to worry about what other people think, but being a 13 year old girl, thats really hard to do. I have friends who don't care about me having this but i know they want to ask me about it, or get annoyed with me scratching all the time. And it's hard to talk to them about it because they don't know what i'm going through. My mom also trys to help but she doesn't know either how bad it hurts, or how much i have to deal with at school because of it. My parents were told i would probably grow out of it by age 10 but i haven't shown any sign of growing out of it. I wish there was just a way to get rid of it good and for all. But i guess you don't always get want you wish for??

By chowmander on Saturday, February 01, 2003 - 06:41 am:

I would have to say this is probably the worst part of eczema. If everyone just understood, if everyone just didnt care, it would making this condition just that much easier. Of course you feel the pain, but you know that it wont last, your reputation will. Luckily I have friends that dont really care, but its the others that piss me off. I just want them to see what its like. They constanly ask me why is my face red, and I at first I dunno what to say, cause they wouldnt understand. Then I just say its like an allergy, but still.. they just dont understand. I really want to see them with eczema and see how they feel when people ask them. But luckily, eczema has not effected my reputation, but still... it worries me often. And it isolates me to what I can do.

By Laura on Tuesday, January 28, 2003 - 10:56 pm:

I'm 16 and had occasional very mild eczema just behind my knees when I was very young. However, since about 11 or 12 the condition worsened to most of my legs, mainly my calves, and some of my thighs.At the beginning of Last year, I went to a dermatoligist who perscribed Elocon ointment. This seemed to cure me well enough, although I was left with a couple of scars, but they were quite small and I was much happier. Then, it all backfired; I think it was the steroid cream elocon that caused large stretch marks on my thighs. I stopped using the cream immediately and over a few weeks my eczema was back, as bad as ever. The dermatologist perscribed protopic for me, which I have been using for about 3 months now. It seems to have stopped the itching alright, and I didn't experience any burning sensations with it, but now I seem to have alot of scars all over my legs. I'm really self-concious about my legs(including the stretch marks) and I also have another condition(a yeast overgrowth--itlooks like acne spots) on my back, so I feel very limited in the clothes i can wear. Nobody else in my school or any where seems to have any problems like these at all. This winter I found that my eczema worsened (as did my acne). I have a sneaking suspicion too, that all my problems are hormonal. I feel so down most of the time because of them, ugly and hopeless. Thank you if you've read this, believe me, I know what you're all going through.

By dindy on Friday, January 24, 2003 - 04:19 pm:

Hi! i'm 10 years old and i have very bad eczema all over my body. i feel extremely depressed with it and am glad other people understand what it is like. has anyone tried diprobase it is good for your face cos' its not to strong. like many other people with eczema i worry about what i look like when i go out and only wear long sleeves even in the summer. Eczema gets worse in the winter and it helps if you go in the sea, it might sting for a few minutes but its worth it cos' it cleares it up alot and then u can wear long sleeves in the summer

By Becky on Thursday, January 23, 2003 - 07:52 pm:

Anon,
I know its hard, but stop worrying about what people think of you, people who only look at you on the outside are not worth it. Also, the more you worry about eczema the worse it will get.
I have had eczema since I was born, although it has got a lot worse durin the last year, I used to worry about what people thought, but fortunately i have always had the support of my mum (she also suffers but milder).
I met my boyfriend in May, and he loves me despite the constant itching and bleading. Im sure you will find a date for the grad.
Remember that there are other sufferers, and you had always talk to us.

By Anonymous on Wednesday, January 22, 2003 - 09:30 pm:

i've had eczema since i was 3 months old. ive been trying hard to get rid of it lately but it just seems to get worse. I drank tons of water, it got worse. I've used oils, lotions, everything.Now it's gotten worse. I found out the other day i have it around my eye and i feel like im worse then i was before. i feel ashamed, like im ugly. i have friends around me but they don't understand and my mom doesn't understand either im 17 and i graduate in a year in a half and i think it'll get worse around my eye and spread to my face. I don't even want to goto grad anymore, i feel like no one would ask me

By Anonymous on Tuesday, December 10, 2002 - 05:52 pm:

you say focus on the good and to have supportive friends and family around, all my life my parents have harassed me about my legs, i even try to hide it from then when it gets worse during winter, my mom doesnt understand at all. my friends well i have a few supportive ones but even then im shy to show my skin around them...heck im even afraid to be with some guys because of what they'll say...

By Anonymous on Sunday, December 01, 2002 - 08:37 pm:

Hi
Don't be fooled just because you can now get
Eumovate over the counter. It is a moderate
steroid stronger than normal hydrocortisone.
I am using this at the moment as I have been
having a flare up for the last three months or so

By Serena on Sunday, December 01, 2002 - 07:47 pm:

Hi guys (me again),

It's winter again and my eczema has got worse as usual. I'm nearly 17 now and as a lot of you know, stress (aka A-levels) don't help. Lately I've been experimenting with different treatments on my own because I've just lost faith completely in prescription meds. I just wondered, has anyone tried the new Eumovate cream that is available in chemists? It's meant to be quite effective in reducing inflammation and itching. I think it's steroid free but i'll check it out and let u know.

Eczema does get you down so bad but I've found that a good circle of supportive friends and family can really boost your spirit. Eczema can destroy your soul but I've decided I won't let it win. When you feel your worst, focus on the positive, it really can help.

Much love 2 u all,
Serena

By Anonymous on Sunday, December 01, 2002 - 05:39 pm:

dealing with eczema is a hassle in itself, but people's comments don't make things any easier. it can be hard, especially as a teenager, when all your friends strut around in their skimpy tops. but try to remember, everyone has things they don't like about themselves. and horrible as eczema is, there are many medical conditions that are much, much worse.
if people make ignorant remarks, don't let them make you feel bad. it isn't your fault! if they genuinely want to ask you about it, then answer. if they are just being cruel, ignore them. their problem, not yours.
i know, i'm making it all sound very easy. trust me, i know that it is nowhere near as simple as i have made it sound. i still look at my skin, and think "eurgh!", but it always looks worse to you than to other people. try not to let your eczema run your life.

By Anonymous on Friday, November 22, 2002 - 06:06 pm:

I've had eczema all my life, i know that makes me different and I've gone through a lot. I've had even my best friend at the time, say "oh my god what's wrong with you." since then i haven't worn shorts and i usually try to stay away from people like that. Obviestly if people can't like you for who you are, screw them you shouldn't worry about them they have some issues and yah...lol....but maybe someday some people will get that.

By SarahM on Wednesday, November 20, 2002 - 07:28 pm:

I am 20 and have always suffered with ezcema all over my body aprt from my face but in recent years my face is the only place I get it. I find myself getting upset (which really doesn't help my skin!)and refusing to go out if I can get away with it (and for someone who's a born shopoholic means i get more depressed!) I only really suffer this in winter but it really gives me a downer. I have tried almost everything but it doesn't seem to work if anyone can suggest something which is mild enough for the face i'd be gratefull

Please email slmarsden@hotmail.com

I just want to be able to shop again!!

By KRISTINA on Wednesday, November 20, 2002 - 07:20 pm:

Hi I AM 14 YEARS OLD.AND I ALSO FEEL SELF-CONSIOUS.ESPECIALLY WHEN LITTLE CHILDREN ASKS ME WHAT IS THAT ON MY SKIN.IT IS NICE KNOWING THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAS GOT ECZEMA,I ALWAYS FEEL TRAPPED WHEN I WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE SO IF YOURE FEELING THE SAME WAY THAN PLIZ EMAIL ME ON
WELSHLOVERGIRL

By Zofy on Saturday, October 19, 2002 - 04:28 pm:

It has been extremely tough for me having eczema and all... and it has happened a lot of bad things the last couple of years... Sometime I just wish I could change my whole situation, but I know I can't. I would be so happy if someone with atopy would write to me. Someone who would understand. Please do, or contact my ICQ.
My number is ---> 96529933
Thank you

By Gaz on Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 09:39 pm:

Hi Rachel,

I'm glad what I said has made you feel better, that is one of the good things about this forum, it gives people with eczema the chance to air their views and talk to people who understand, and we can support each other, it's great, I'm a lot less self-conscious about my eczema than I was since I found this site.

Keep it up!

By Rachel on Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 08:55 pm:

Thank you so much for your advice and inspirement,
Gaz. You have no idea how much happier you have made me. You are an angel. Thanks again.

By Gaz on Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 07:40 pm:

Hi Rachel,

You can talk to all of us here - we are here to listen. I can certainly identify with how you feel, I am extremely self-conscious (even though my eczema isn't that bad now, it was when I was younger, but it's difficult to become confident when you've felt self-conscious all the time.

But well done on not letting it stop you from doing things - that is more than half the battle.

By Rachel on Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 08:06 am:

Hey everyone! I'm 14 years old and I have eczema.
I've had eczema since I was about 2 years old.
I'm very self-conscious when ever I'm around people. A lot of the time I wish I didn't have eczema, but it doesn't stop me from being active and having a good time. I wish I didn't have eczema, but then I think of all the other people who have eczema, and it lets me know that I'm not the only one who has it. It annoys me when people ask me about my skin. I wish I could have someone to relate to about my skin. I feel depressed alot because of my skin. Sometimes I cry because I wish it would all go away. I wish I could talk to someone.

By Leigh on Wednesday, July 03, 2002 - 02:03 pm:

Hi,
I'm 21, i know a bit old to post in the teenagers section! I've had eczema since i was a baby so i havent known life without it. i left school 4 years ago now and since then my self confidence has risen, i think to do with not having to live in fear of the bullys. I'm still very self concious about my skin but somehow i have managed to get over it bit by bit. One of the things that has helped my progress the most is having the guy that bullied me when i was about 11 come up to me in a club and asked me out!!!!!! It was both good and bad in a way cause i knew that he didnt remember the harsh things he said but good cause by knocking him back made me feel very powerful.

Having eczema has played its part into shaping me as a person. I would have loved to have grown up without it but i know i wouldnt be the person i am now without it.

By Blue on Wednesday, March 13, 2002 - 08:09 pm:

Hi Rach! Im so glad that things r goin well 4u. My eczema also gets better in the sun and when i went on holiday my skin improved and i have been told that sunbed sessions i would benefit from but im still not too keen! Im glad that u can look in the mirror and get a positive image- i just cant seem to do that! Love Blue xxx

By Rach on Wednesday, March 13, 2002 - 12:04 pm:

Hello to all of you,
I have read all the messages and as a 23 year old - I hear exactly what you are having to deal with! I have spent years listening to Doctors telling me the same old rubbish, they truly have no idea how eczema can not only take over your life but destroy your very being and self-confidence.
I spend my life (and pay packet!) trying new products and I now use what I find is best. Traditional old Aqueous cream, steroid creams and oilatum in the bath! I would like to suggst something else that I havent heard any of you mention and that is SunBeds. I tried 12 months ago after a 2 week holiday which left my skin so smooth and clear it was unbelievable. Now, when I have an outbreak I have a 6 minute session on the sunbed and it works! My skin loves the sun and it loves sunbeds (although not too frequently). I realise it wont work for everyone but for me it has - I did a modelling shoot not so long back and I have a selection of skimpy tops in my wardrobe. I have worked out a long term cure for myself as well - MOVE ABROAD TO A HOT CLIMATE!

Keep your chin-up, I know its hard, but life is too short. I still have those horrible dips where I look in the mirror and think yuk! If any of you guys want to talk more e-mail me! Hope I can help!

By Blue on Saturday, March 09, 2002 - 04:50 pm:

This is the first time ive been to this site and am glad i have . I didnt realise there were so many people feeling the way i do, its just comforting knowing im not alone. Its really strange because i read what people have said and can relate to it just the same. Can i ask if anyone knows whats best to boost confidence when u are feeling like this?

By copied across on Wednesday, January 02, 2002 - 09:18 pm:

By Jenny on Monday, December 03, 2001 - 04:02 am:


Hello

I am 18 and frustrated with my lifelong loosing battle with my eczema.

My condition sounds similar to the one described by Kerry in relation to her 3 year old son. Terrible allergy to cats. Also allergic to dust mites, fish, horses, lots grasses, lots nuts (almost died when ate a piece of wall nut the size of a pin head).

Also distressing is how my skin seems to be aging very quickly. I look so much older than my friends. I saw a friend at a party on Saturday who I had not seen for almost a year. He said I looked older than last time he saw me and indicated that he meant by the state of my skin. All my family and friends have admitted, usually with reluctance trying to play down the issue, that my face, neck and hands are accumulating wrinkles at an unusual rate. As if the eczema on it's own wasn't bad enough!!!

I have done research on eczema and the most obvious aggravants seem to be food, town water, chemicals. Should I change my diet? Live in a bubble? Joke.

Any ideas help appreciated greatly!

By Jennifer on Monday, November 26, 2001 - 04:44 am:


Dear Vicki,

I understand how you feel as I have eczema on my face too, although I didn't get it until I was about 22 yrs old (I'm 27 now). I know exactly how you feel, the embarassment and the not wanting to look at anyone on in the eye fearing they will look at your eczema on your face strangely. I wish I had some magic potion I can tell you to use and it will clear up but unfortunately as we all know, eczema can be a long term problem. Your Dr doesn't sound like she understands what eczema is and I think you should go and see other Drs to see if they can help, afterall, how can a Dr help you if he or she doesn't even understand what it is? Most importantly, you should try and concentrate on the happy and good things in your life and also realise that having eczema is already more fortunate than say, a physical handicap, or blindness or something that is non-cureable by cream or surgery or anything. Don't get me wrong, don't look at other people's misfortunes to make yourself feel better but try and see that you are still very lucky in many many ways. Sure, there are very mean people in the world who will say mean things and make you feel bad, but you will also see that there are many more good people in the world who don't care how you look like and are interested in you as a person. Besides, why spend so much time being upset on what people say to you, are they important people in your lives? No, probably not. They are probably just people who are miserable themselves in one aspect or another and just want to pick on someone. So don't worry about these totally petty people who are totally insignificant in your life.

There are two things which I might suggest although you should do further research or get consultation is a ointment called Tacrolimus. It has worked wonders on many people including myself. It's still not a miracle cream where it will make it disappear forever and you'll have beautiful smooth skin, but it definitely does calm it down and control it and you will feel like you look normal - I've tried it and I think you should look into it too. The great thing about this ointment is that there are no steroids in it and therefore won't cause premature wrinkles. The other thing I suggest is to be more healthy in your diet and exercise. I hear that if you have a strong healthy body, it will be able to keep out a lot of the eczema, kinda like, it's strong enough to hold it off cause you're body's strong. But if you have a weak body, no exercise, eat tonnes of junk food, then your eczema can easily creep into your system and surface on your skin. That's kinda the situation for me and my sister. We both have it but hers is definitely much less and controlled compared to mine. She started to get regular exercise and eat healthy, and I on the otherhand, am not as committed as her and I can see the results. She has almost normal skin except a little around her elbows and neck and mine is all over my body and face. I don't know, I think exercising and having a healthy diet kinda makes sense - what do you think?

Anyway, good luck, try to find solutions to make it better, afterall, stress makes it worse and if all you do is sit there and worry about it, it will never get better.

Jennifer

By Vicki on Sunday, November 25, 2001 - 04:55 pm:


I am 14 years old and I have also had eczema since birth.I have been told many a time that i will grow out of my eczema and in a way i have. The eczema on my arms and legs has gone but i still have bad eczema on my face and I hate it. I never know what to do and I just feel so alone because I don't know anyone else with eczema on their face. No-one seems to understand. They tell me I'll grow out of it and it's just a phase I'm going through but it's not. My doctor gave me a moisturiser but she doesn't seem to understand that it is an illness!I just want someone to talk to. Does anyone understand how i feel?

By imogen44 on Sunday, November 25, 2001 - 11:18 am:

Everbody!

My husband had (and has) eczema. Didn't stop me falling in love with him!!

Viv

By Gaz on Monday, November 05, 2001 - 09:52 pm:

Yeah, I will soon not be qualified to post in this forum (nearly 20!) but I have had severe eczema all m life. I'ts been a bit better until recently for 3 years, as the dr put me on Cyclosporin, but now I have had to reduce my dose and it's came back.

I know what you all mean about being self conscious. I am SO shy! At school I found it hard to mix with people. After all, why would anyone want to be friends with me when they could be friends with a normal kid? It just gives me a massive inferiority complex. I have never ad a girlfriend, nobody has ever liked me in that way. I am too shy to ask out girls because I am afriad of them seeing my skin (it's not too bad on my face, but the rest of me is horrible). Nobody who hasn't got eczema understands how dehabilitating it is.

By Jackie on Thursday, October 04, 2001 - 02:48 am:

Hi! Going out to all teens dealing with eczema out there. I know it's terribly difficult. I am very self conscious about my condition and I have developed anxiety because of it. I am less judgemental of others due to my condition. We really can't let eczema win. It is really only a small part of who we are. What would we be without our condition? Would we be different. Were all good at something and we all have things that we like. Take pride in that. Join a group that interests you. Your a good person.
Wondering if anyone got around to reading my input in one of the last issues of the National Eczema Society's magazine. I'm the one starting the Butterfly Wings Support Group in Canada. Take care of yourselves and write to me over here. I'm moving soon, but I'll be in Burnaby, BC until November 1st. I don't have any friends. I need support. Hugs and kisses to all of you struggling with this condition. Jackie

By Sabrina on Sunday, August 26, 2001 - 05:55 pm:

Hi Im Sabrina and Im nearly 18 years old. Iv had eczema for as long as I can remember, altho ther was a brief period wen it all sorta cleared up. Thing is, the self conscious thing is really bad - Iv got such a low self esteem and I feel that my eczema is to blame. Im so glad ther r other ppl who know wot Im going thru - parents can sumtimes b the worst ppl 2 b arnd, esp. wen they tell u 2 stop scratching - like its that easy. Id luv 2 talk 2 sum1 els about the condition either on these forums or by e-mail (marsmanna@aol.com). Im so glad I found this site!

By Serena on Thursday, August 02, 2001 - 07:19 pm:

If any of you are desperate to clear up your eczema you should try taking pure cod liver oil. I have severe eczema and it's much better since taking it. Thing is, the cod liver oil doesn't taste nice.

By jack on Saturday, July 21, 2001 - 04:13 pm:

hi. im a 17 year old boy and about 2 months ago i got dry skin all over my face and scalp and a red inflamation. it soon spread all over my body, and i went to the doctor. i have now taken a variety of drugs, from steroids, to anti-histamines, and now anti-biotics. Altough the eczema has improved, it caused me to get an infection on my chin, forehead and nose. i have used about 10 different creams and none seem to help. i feel very self-conscious, and i missed nearly 4 weeks of school in all. if anyone else has had similar experiences please get in contact with me.

By stephen on Sunday, July 15, 2001 - 09:51 pm:

I desperately want to rid my arms and neck of excema. I look like a disgusting reptile, and everyone at school ask why my neck is red. I do use an emollient every day, but I want to get rid of my excema as soon as poss because it is stopping me from wearing swimming costumes and sleevless tops - what am I going to do in the summer?

By changa on Thursday, June 14, 2001 - 05:57 pm:

I'm 20 years old, but I've had severe eczema all of my life. Although I'm a few years out of high school now, I remember my angst pretty vividly. I was the same way, I couldn't wear shorts, tank tops, etc. I couldn't wear black either because I had a flaky scalp and neck that would appear on my clothes, which was yet another cause for self-consciousness. My freshmen year in high school I got what the doctors thought was poison oak all over my face (to this day I know it wasn't poison oak b/c I hadn't touched anything or been near any type of woods). In my senior I got atopic herpatitis on my face, basically herpes on your face and eyelids. The last bout was on the week of my senior prom. I'm not telling this to scare you or anything. I just want you to know I know how it feels. Fortunately, I had some close friends that supported me and year after year I got a little bolder and started to care less of what I thought people saw in my skin and more about how I carried myself. Not how my skin represented me. I'm not completely self confident--believe me I have scars for days--but try to focus on things that you can look forward to. And when it comes time to think about your skin and how bad it feels inside and out, put on your favorite song, kick back and calm down. Stress only aggravates eczema.

By Serena on Tuesday, June 12, 2001 - 06:57 pm:

I'm a 15 year old girl and like any other teenager I worry about how I look when I go out. I have chronic eczema on my arms which prevents me from wearing any short sleeves or strappy tops for summer which I find extremely depressing when my friends can wear what they want. I'd really appreciate to hear from other teens who suffer with eczema. We all need the support so please post your views and experiences.